http://narcissisticpersonalitydisorder.aimoo.comAimoo CityAimooen-USAimoo http://narcissisticpersonalitydisorder.aimoo.com/ReplyID-3829368/TopicID-408965/GoToTopic.html dtdt88 2009-11-23 08:25:15.983 Narcissistic Personality Disorder/Psychopath  that link on sex with a narcissist, wow. I couldnt figure out why he treated me like love making is dirty and he cannot kiss me during or after because my mouth is dirty.  To me what ever the two involved agree on as safe and loving is just making love.  That is all I know, making lo http://narcissisticpersonalitydisorder.aimoo.com/ReplyID-3828259/TopicID-678596/GoToTopic.html CheeCheeRod 2009-11-23 04:52:37.81 Narcissistic Personality Disorder/Psychopath Thanks Lori. It was just nice to feel like I was heard. And, you are right about God, he is the only reason I am not in an institution after dealing with Jim. Good advice on the dog....and I just happen to have a perfect one.Thanks again. http://narcissisticpersonalitydisorder.aimoo.com/ReplyID-3822528/TopicID-380445/GoToTopic.html lkay 2009-11-22 06:21:57.8 Narcissistic Personality Disorder/Psychopath  Hi You Guys,This is the topic I was looking for.  I got on this site called The Love Safety Net, check this site out.  She and he are from Australia and she actually has transformed him.  The site gives you hope on maybe getting your narcissist transformed, so at times it's diff http://narcissisticpersonalitydisorder.aimoo.com/ReplyID-3822467/TopicID-647964/GoToTopic.html lkay 2009-11-22 06:11:40.77 Narcissistic Personality Disorder/Psychopath  You know, as long as you play the "victim" then he will stick around.  He's only looking for a victim, whether it's you or the next person he gets involved with.  You be the strong MOJO that you really are.  I know you're strong because you've endured him.  You're more of a http://narcissisticpersonalitydisorder.aimoo.com/ReplyID-3822432/TopicID-664135/GoToTopic.html lkay 2009-11-22 06:04:45.707 Narcissistic Personality Disorder/Psychopath  Yes, you'll need to get a counselor that understands narcissism and hopefully, they can lead you to a good lawyer.  But, it  is essential that you get his actions written down and get it to a professional so that it is setup with someone on the tracks this Narcissist has put you thro http://narcissisticpersonalitydisorder.aimoo.com/ReplyID-3822404/TopicID-678596/GoToTopic.html lkay 2009-11-22 05:58:33.893 Narcissistic Personality Disorder/Psychopath  Just remember you have a lot of worth.  You are a child of God.  God loves you and you don't need anyone else to love you as long as God loves you.  Now, I know we all want love and acceptance from another human on the planet, so I'm not trying to take light of that.  But f http://narcissisticpersonalitydisorder.aimoo.com/ReplyID-0/TopicID-678596/GoToTopic.html CheeCheeRod 2009-11-21 14:03:37.69 Narcissistic Personality Disorder/Psychopath We dated almost a year and then we got married. I thought he had some 'commitment problems', but just thought it was because he was 45..never married..never had kids. He just had to have me...on & off. He would brag about how wonderful I was.....at first and against my better judgement, we marri http://narcissisticpersonalitydisorder.aimoo.com/ReplyID-3710034/TopicID-664135/GoToTopic.html LynnS1 2009-11-06 04:29:45.383 Narcissistic Personality Disorder/Psychopath Treading, as to your immediate feelings, if you are contemplating self-harm at all, then please call a suicide hotline or go to your ER or call 911.  If you need resources or numbers for a suicide hotline, I can post those for you.  I am so sorry you are in such difficulties beca http://narcissisticpersonalitydisorder.aimoo.com/ReplyID-0/TopicID-664135/GoToTopic.html Treading_Water 2009-11-03 15:30:28.327 Narcissistic Personality Disorder/Psychopath Nothing is changed, I am still with my N. I first wrote on this board 4 or 5 years ago when it was with MSN. Now there is a business entaglement, i am in so deep and am so depressed I think about suicide almost everyday. I even described my plan on craigslist and got quite a few compliments, it is n http://narcissisticpersonalitydisorder.aimoo.com/ReplyID-3680030/TopicID-647964/GoToTopic.html pixienut74 2009-11-01 23:14:32.133 Narcissistic Personality Disorder/Psychopath This is just like my ex. Its common i think http://narcissisticpersonalitydisorder.aimoo.com/ReplyID-3664094/TopicID-380445/GoToTopic.html Mara1978 2009-10-30 08:49:48.293 Narcissistic Personality Disorder/Psychopath Hi Jezugma,I was looking for the same information as you were and got to this link.  Did you work it out? I´m in a similar situation, it´s been about 2 years and it´s getting too hard to handle.  I´m so sad.  If you could please tell me about your experience, how come you realized it. http://narcissisticpersonalitydisorder.aimoo.com/ReplyID-3660237/TopicID-408965/GoToTopic.html msthing 2009-10-29 22:40:21.0 Narcissistic Personality Disorder/Psychopath No they are too involved into themselves and self gratification to really give of themselves for a great lovemaking session. http://narcissisticpersonalitydisorder.aimoo.com/ReplyID-0/TopicID-660027/GoToTopic.html Gia29 2009-10-29 06:41:13.227 THE TARGET - Healing, Survival Tactics (Read Only)  You Think That You Are So Special... Edited by Tavia written by <script>e_gen("heartless-bitches.com","Annesthesia","Annesthesia")</script>Annesthesia (In memory of the machinations of a borderline controller, with condolences to all the other women who came before (and will com http://narcissisticpersonalitydisorder.aimoo.com/ReplyID-3639545/TopicID-647964/GoToTopic.html msthing 2009-10-26 22:19:01.507 Narcissistic Personality Disorder/Psychopath Reply to LynnS1 (10/16/2009 18:40 PM)Sarah, he simply threw you a crumb to see if you'd bite, to see if he still had power over you.  With N's, more supply is better.  They don't call or contact because they 'miss you' or want to be close to you.  They don't think that way.He's a user http://narcissisticpersonalitydisorder.aimoo.com/ReplyID-3634375/TopicID-655509/GoToTopic.html Gene_P 2009-10-26 02:06:43.053 Narcissistic Personality Disorder/Psychopath Thanks,I am in the process of confirming my own status with professionals, I'll take it from there. I love her very much.  http://narcissisticpersonalitydisorder.aimoo.com/ReplyID-3630000/TopicID-655509/GoToTopic.html npd 2009-10-25 09:20:55.883 Narcissistic Personality Disorder/Psychopath I think that's its mainly for the kids you want to stay with her. You're doing your best but its not working. I think that the best thing for the kids is for you to be apart from her. It cant be good for them to see the fighting. Of course you dont want to lose contact with them. Never mind the http://narcissisticpersonalitydisorder.aimoo.com/ReplyID-3622358/TopicID-655509/GoToTopic.html Gene_P 2009-10-24 07:10:55.82 Narcissistic Personality Disorder/Psychopath I get what you mean(a few times over :) ). Wife don't know I am here just told her I was reading up on the subject. But your right I want to prove something but I am ready for either outcome. If I am the abuser then I want help! I plan to ask my therapist to look my relationship from this angle http://narcissisticpersonalitydisorder.aimoo.com/ReplyID-3620685/TopicID-655509/GoToTopic.html cdnmlmic 2009-10-24 02:49:50.007 Narcissistic Personality Disorder/Psychopath seems to me that just the fact that you are trying to analyze the situation points in the direction that you are not an N.  Plus most N's do not FEEL guilt of any kind.However, if you are doing all the things you describe and writing on this forum to PROVE to your wife or to yourself that you a http://narcissisticpersonalitydisorder.aimoo.com/ReplyID-3620684/TopicID-655509/GoToTopic.html cdnmlmic 2009-10-24 02:49:42.74 Narcissistic Personality Disorder/Psychopath seems to me that just the fact that you are trying to analyze the situation points in the direction that you are not an N.  Plus most N's do not FEEL guilt of any kind.However, if you are doing all the things you describe and writing on this forum to PROVE to your wife or to yourself that you a http://narcissisticpersonalitydisorder.aimoo.com/ReplyID-3620683/TopicID-655509/GoToTopic.html cdnmlmic 2009-10-24 02:49:35.927 Narcissistic Personality Disorder/Psychopath seems to me that just the fact that you are trying to analyze the situation points in the direction that you are not an N.  Plus most N's do not FEEL guilt of any kind.However, if you are doing all the things you describe and writing on this forum to PROVE to your wife or to yourself that you a http://narcissisticpersonalitydisorder.aimoo.com/ReplyID-3620680/TopicID-655509/GoToTopic.html cdnmlmic 2009-10-24 02:48:49.367 Narcissistic Personality Disorder/Psychopath seems to me that just the fact that you are trying to analyze the situation points in the direction that you are not an N.  Plus most N's do not FEEL guilt of any kind.However, if you are doing all the things you describe and writing on this forum to PROVE to your wife or to yourself that you a http://narcissisticpersonalitydisorder.aimoo.com/ReplyID-3620672/TopicID-655509/GoToTopic.html cdnmlmic 2009-10-24 02:46:58.257 Narcissistic Personality Disorder/Psychopath seems to me that just the fact that you are trying to analyze the situation points in the direction that you are not an N.  Plus most N's do not FEEL guilt of any kind.However, if you are doing all the things you describe and writing on this forum to PROVE to your wife or to yourself that you a http://narcissisticpersonalitydisorder.aimoo.com/ReplyID-3619505/TopicID-655509/GoToTopic.html Gene_P 2009-10-23 23:55:53.35 Narcissistic Personality Disorder/Psychopath Thanks for the Welcome,I see a therapist and a psycologist regularly. I was raised in a strong Itialian family where boys were critized for showing emotion my Father had anger issues and was very physical/abusive with dicipline and my mother. My therapist says that I have issues from my childhood an http://narcissisticpersonalitydisorder.aimoo.com/ReplyID-3615683/TopicID-651874/GoToTopic.html LynnS1 2009-10-23 10:14:11.6 Narcissistic Personality Disorder/Psychopath Hi, outoftheshadows.For a Narcissist, it's all about his image.  He is an actor in his own play.  If he sees himself as a compassionate, 'good guy', then he will play that role in public because it gets him positive attention which is known as Narcissistic "supply".  The way http://narcissisticpersonalitydisorder.aimoo.com/ReplyID-3615631/TopicID-655509/GoToTopic.html LynnS1 2009-10-23 10:05:54.913 Narcissistic Personality Disorder/Psychopath Hi, Gene_P.  Welcome to the forum.It sounds as if you're very confused and concerned about this situation and also that you're working on your anger issues and depression.  That's certainly a positive direction.  I wish I could give you definitive answers, but only a profess http://narcissisticpersonalitydisorder.aimoo.com/ReplyID-0/TopicID-655509/GoToTopic.html Gene_P 2009-10-23 05:32:16.2 Narcissistic Personality Disorder/Psychopath I'm in a relationship right now where my wife and I have been to a few counselors; marriage, personal shrinks and she has been to see two of mine with me. I originally went in and asked for help with a single episode of depression. I stayed in counseling because I know I have problems with opening u http://narcissisticpersonalitydisorder.aimoo.com/ReplyID-0/TopicID-651874/GoToTopic.html outoftheshadows 2009-10-18 06:16:50.667 Narcissistic Personality Disorder/Psychopath Hi, I am new to the site.  I am currently going through a divorce and my counselor believes that my stbx has npd. She asked me to research it and see if I agree.  She saw my husband and I several times together so she is not basing this completely on things I have said.  I am not http://narcissisticpersonalitydisorder.aimoo.com/ReplyID-3573534/TopicID-647964/GoToTopic.html LynnS1 2009-10-17 08:40:15.59 Narcissistic Personality Disorder/Psychopath Sarah, he simply threw you a crumb to see if you'd bite, to see if he still had power over you.  With N's, more supply is better.  They don't call or contact because they 'miss you' or want to be close to you.  They don't think that way.He's a user and you deserve better than that, es http://narcissisticpersonalitydisorder.aimoo.com/ReplyID-3573434/TopicID-651025/GoToTopic.html LynnS1 2009-10-17 08:23:19.057 Family Situations Past behavior and lack of change on his part would indicate that there isn't much hope of any change, tazzer.  If he has NPD, the prospects for any kind of recovery are very dim, mostly due to the fact that narcissists don't really think there is anything wrong with them.  They may go to c http://narcissisticpersonalitydisorder.aimoo.com/ReplyID-0/TopicID-651025/GoToTopic.html tazzer3900 2009-10-17 04:10:58.433 Family Situations Hey all, I'm hoping someone can help me.  I've been married to this narcissist for almost 14years.  He's a liar, a cheater, emotional abusive, and manipulative.  I'm really concerned about the long term impact on our three beautiful girls.  Is there any hope that he will change?& http://narcissisticpersonalitydisorder.aimoo.com/ReplyID-0/TopicID-647964/GoToTopic.html sarah1983 2009-10-13 03:21:10.737 Narcissistic Personality Disorder/Psychopath I'm so confused by the current situation with my N. Can someone plese shed some light onto this for me? I am pretty sure that I was dating an N for a number of reasons but that's a story for a different day. Basically though, he broke up with me eventually but then I found out that I was pregnant an http://narcissisticpersonalitydisorder.aimoo.com/ReplyID-0/TopicID-643163/GoToTopic.html JadedBabe 2009-10-06 12:26:50.81 Narcissistic Personality Disorder/Psychopath Everyone has baggage, some of us have steamer trunks.  This document is designed to let any man that I'm considering the possibility of including in my life what he might have to deal with.  The choice of whether or not it's worth it is up to you.The following can be summed up in a few sen http://narcissisticpersonalitydisorder.aimoo.com/ReplyID-0/TopicID-643121/GoToTopic.html JadedBabe 2009-10-06 11:22:16.263 Narcissistic Personality Disorder/Psychopath I've been on the NPD boards for a couple of years off and on. Been on the BPD boards more frequently lately as I'm not sure if he is NPD, BPD or both.I'm in the process of a divorce, thank god.  But it ain't easy and he's still in complete denial.  He wanted to insist upon a GAL (per his l http://narcissisticpersonalitydisorder.aimoo.com/ReplyID-0/TopicID-627076/GoToTopic.html lydiaa 2009-09-17 12:27:42.493 Narcissistic Personality Disorder/Psychopath Hi- I'm new to this group. I've been told that I have for sure been emotionally abused, most likely by a narcissist. Will you guys help me out ? The quizzes all sounded like him. But I'd love some second opinions to confirm I'm not just crazy. I will try to describe him in as short of a way as I can http://narcissisticpersonalitydisorder.aimoo.com/ReplyID-3186168/TopicID-605867/GoToTopic.html LynnS1 2009-08-22 22:11:25.203 Narcissistic Personality Disorder/Psychopath Sheba, I am so sorry you have been taken advantage of by this man in such a horrible way.  N's are opportunists, and clearly he is certainly an opportunist.  I'm so glad you've hired a lawyer and I hope the sale of the house goes through quickly.This forum tends to be more of a viewing for http://narcissisticpersonalitydisorder.aimoo.com/ReplyID-0/TopicID-605867/GoToTopic.html shebagirl 2009-08-22 15:15:34.263 Narcissistic Personality Disorder/Psychopath 1.   First he showed me how much he loved me.2.   He started to make me doubt myself "are you stupid ?" etc. over and over3.   he got ahold of my money-agreed to buy a house with him.4.  Then we bought a house in his home town "Hell on Earth, USA"5.  http://narcissisticpersonalitydisorder.aimoo.com/ReplyID-0/TopicID-587405/GoToTopic.html Marcimv 2009-08-02 09:33:53.92 Narcissistic Personality Disorder/Psychopath Reposting cuz think posted in wrong spot... oops so much information here :)its a long story but I think,,, no..I know,  Im finally ready to end this. I have no excuse for myself for staying too long. I suspected he was an N before I agreed to marry him. but thought maybe by saying he want http://narcissisticpersonalitydisorder.aimoo.com/ReplyID-0/TopicID-587402/GoToTopic.html Marcimv 2009-08-02 09:31:51.11 Welcome - A Good Place to Start its a long story but I think,,, no, I know,  Im finally ready to end this. I have no excuse for myself for staying too long. I suspected he was an N before I agreed to marry him. but thought maybe by saying he wanted to marry was his commitment to change for better.Even though married him, http://narcissisticpersonalitydisorder.aimoo.com/ReplyID-0/TopicID-586037/GoToTopic.html femfree 2009-07-31 22:54:40.14 NPs in the Workplace, Business, Fraud and Government Calm the tantrum throwers in the corner office WALLACE IMMENFrom Friday's Globe and Mail Last updated on Friday, Jul. 31, 2009 07:30AM EDT Their demands seem to know no limits. They get distracted easily. And when things don't go their way, they can unexpectedly fly into a tantrum.You'd expect http://narcissisticpersonalitydisorder.aimoo.com/ReplyID-3017855/TopicID-471859/GoToTopic.html femfree 2009-07-30 20:38:41.233 Narcissistic Personality Disorder/Psychopath Thank you Sissie. http://narcissisticpersonalitydisorder.aimoo.com/ReplyID-3017743/TopicID-471859/GoToTopic.html Sissie61 2009-07-30 20:18:17.39 Narcissistic Personality Disorder/Psychopath This is AWASOME!! http://narcissisticpersonalitydisorder.aimoo.com/ReplyID-3012923/TopicID-567539/GoToTopic.html MuttonandJeff 2009-07-30 05:16:17.86 Narcissistic Personality Disorder/Psychopath Jessbar,i left 2 years ago after 25 years of that same behaviour.  Strangely the minute i left i felt total relief and have never looked back.  i was lucky in that he only contacted me a couple of times but when i kept the conversation short and sweet, he lost interest.  Basically he http://narcissisticpersonalitydisorder.aimoo.com/ReplyID-0/TopicID-575904/GoToTopic.html femfree 2009-07-20 22:01:13.283 Narcissistic Personality Disorder/Psychopath Criminals With No Conscience http://www.opinion250.com/blog/view/13383/1/criminals+with+no+conscience Sunday, July 19, 2009 03:44 AM Decency is a Clear Conscience   by Justice Wallace Craig -retired   Since the 1970s, successive federal governments have maintained a policy in federal penit http://narcissisticpersonalitydisorder.aimoo.com/ReplyID-0/TopicID-575899/GoToTopic.html femfree 2009-07-20 21:54:09.457 Coping with the N/P At-Risk Child Mental illnesses change as adolescents evolve By ALANA LISTOE http://www.helenair.com/articles/2009/07/19/top/55lo_090719_challenge.txt Four-year-old Jake Power’s eyes are big and bright as he makes his way around the playground at Helena’s Memorial Park on a sunny Saturday afternoon. His short, san http://narcissisticpersonalitydisorder.aimoo.com/ReplyID-2909500/TopicID-542272/GoToTopic.html wearenotmissing 2009-07-16 14:27:43.533 Narcissistic Personality Disorder/Psychopath Hi Jane,I honestly can't remember the initials of the person but there were two people who became alarmed at the way I handled my UNIQUE situation and they came straight in with judgemental posts on how I was feeding my Narcissist and damaging my children.  In my opinion the damage had been don http://narcissisticpersonalitydisorder.aimoo.com/ReplyID-2883218/TopicID-378039/GoToTopic.html simplemerighthere 2009-07-13 06:24:57.49 Narcissistic Personality Disorder/Psychopath Lynnlynn,thanks so much for responding.  I am a mess and alone and I don't like it.  He changed his phone number and cut me off and I am the one hurting ... I know I will get through this but it is really really difficult.thanks again for even responding. http://narcissisticpersonalitydisorder.aimoo.com/ReplyID-2883138/TopicID-378039/GoToTopic.html LynnS1 2009-07-13 06:16:00.677 Narcissistic Personality Disorder/Psychopath Simpleme, please don't be so quick to judge yourself if you were involved in this kind of relationship.  People react to abuse in a variety of ways.  An abuser's intention is very often to get his target to act out his own worst impulses for him. Narcissists generally don't think http://narcissisticpersonalitydisorder.aimoo.com/ReplyID-2879876/TopicID-378039/GoToTopic.html simplemerighthere 2009-07-12 21:48:38.393 Narcissistic Personality Disorder/Psychopath  This scares me to death to post this, but I must to get past this longing.  I have been reading for two days about NPD and psychopaths/sociopath etc.  To my HORROR not only does this apply to my ex but some of it applies to me.  How can this be?  I am not purely the victim http://narcissisticpersonalitydisorder.aimoo.com/ReplyID-2875902/TopicID-567539/GoToTopic.html jessbar 2009-07-12 06:02:58.83 Narcissistic Personality Disorder/Psychopath Thanks Missy Deb,I was lucky that he got very abusive when I got away from him and he provided me with so much vital evidence I needed to get an apprehended violence order.  He filled my email, mobile and landline with the most hateful messages and threats, was 'rough' with my house, stole keys http://narcissisticpersonalitydisorder.aimoo.com/ReplyID-2872224/TopicID-567539/GoToTopic.html missydeb 2009-07-11 18:57:22.817 Narcissistic Personality Disorder/Psychopath  Just don't allow your feelings to lure you back in. I have been in therapy for over a year and for the first time I can say...I am really free.  Now you need to keep the distance....to allow yourself to heal...physically and emotionally cause being with an N is draining. And huge kudos fo